Ok so like Im just a scronny tall gay guy right

Ok so like Im just a scronny tall gay guy right, Im 22 and I love to go out clubbing and partying. When I hang out with a new crowd of people I tend to come off *** being rude or an asshole when I joke around, which can get some people real mad or even physical. Well last week thats happened and I ran into my car and locked the doors. I was so scared for my life, my lesbian girl cousin who dresses like a guy stood up for me and got into it with the guy who was trying to beat me up. He ended up punching her in the face. Now fast forward later and all my fams are getting on me about this and telling me to watch my damn mouth next time and blaming me for everything. I feel really bad and such a loser. Why am I so scared to fight?

As a child, the boy was exposed to a lot

As a child, the boy was exposed to a lot of verbal and physical abuse from his parents because of his effeminate and girlish manners. His father was a police officer who was rigid and abusive to him; his mother, who regarded being gay as a sin, believed that he had to ask for forgiveness from God." I love grammar and I tried to keep this as much like your original wording but I did have to change a couple things; for example, he wouldn't ask for an apology from God because he wasn't asking God to apologize to him. Hope this helps! :)

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I had crushes on both girls and boys as a child

I had crushes on both girls and boys as a child, but found myself only attracted to women as a teenager. I'm 18 and have been attracted to very few people, but they've all been women. I am not a particularly romantic person. I've never been particularly feminine or masculine and have always dressed in gender neutral clothing. People made assumptions about me because of this, even as a child (which ticks me off). I've always just felt like me and hate it when others try to tell me who I am.

My dilemma is whether or not to tell my family that I'm gay when I never told them I was straight. At the same time, who I love does seem like it would be important to the people I love (my family). My family is very close and understanding, and I am confident that they wouldn't respond negatively. I'm afraid of them looking at me differently, especially when my sexuality has never felt like a big part of who I am. At the same time, I don't want to just freak them out one day by bringing a girl home.

Has anyone had a similar experience? Any advice?

I mean I hear how guys say

I mean I hear how guys say all the time they never cry and would never let a girl see them do it or whatever but honestly I have. I have been in a great relationship for 2 years and I have to say ive had some rough times and my girl has seen my cry. As well once I did cry tears of joy because I have never been loved so much by anyone before.

Is this normal? Or all the macho guys on the internet right saying this shouldn't happen unless your gay?

But he is still filthy and full of dirt I

But he is still filthy and full of dirt I can't imagine how they poor people know how to make love and romance , when I see them kiss I just feel disgusted, they think they're rich and they can love and kiss. Poor people like them do not have any right to love kiss or even have babies They never got into fights and he keeps on taking her out and telling her sweet things(today he took her out and she was really happy and excited and she was really cute ,she was wearing a dress which looks very cheap and i think she got it from a garbage as she is poor and I bet he took her to the public park because thats what he can afford lol) and sometimes I humiliate him in front of her by mocking at his clothes which are cheap (I doubt he bought them from a thrift shop) and shout at him ( infront of her) although he can't answer back because he is just a filthy worker but he doesn't care !! How can I humiliate him ? Shall I fire him ? Shall I try to touch her in front of him ?
They are not allowed to have sex often because they are staying at the other side of the house which is for maids and workers!

Hello , I'm David a 20 year old guy

Hello , I'm David a 20 year old guy. I'm extremely rich and I live with a really big family, I have what ever I want whenever I want. Our house is full of maids and suites which I really think are an embarrassment for our family, and there is that one particular girl which I really think is hot, she is American as I am and really cute. She is 20 yrs old, she is extremely beautiful (green eyes, light brown hair,great smile , she is slim and tall), I really want to **** her! Everything about her is cute, the way she cleans, the way she dress, the way she walks and the way she laughs. I sometimes try to flirt with her, I wait for her to serve me. But the problem is that she is married to that trashy dude which also works for us as a gardener (he washes cars too) he is 21 years old and he doesn't look bad (green eyes, blond hair, and a 6 pack body) I'm not gay but I'm saying that tHey both look good and they truly love each other . Sometimes I see them cuddle and kiss, she keeps on smiling when she is around him, he stares at her in a way that I sometimes wanna kill him,I stand them being together alone inside their tiny room so I make him clean all the cars twice at night so that he stays as much time possible away from her, This is the only time they stay together (at night) and do whatever they want in private but I'm keeping him away from her, and when they kiss or cuddle while working I shout at them and tell them to go to work. I want to have sex with her,I think she has a very great body for sex and would make me go wild ******* her, I can't stand watching them together. Is there any way I can have her and make her leave that poor little dirty guy and stay with me the rich clean guy which works an honest job not like him a ******* gardener!! Please any advice

I am 20 (female) and I am deeply depressed

I am 20 (female) and I am deeply depressed, and I am dealing with a toxic family (mainly five older siblings). My whole life they have made me feel like I was worthless, and beneath them. They have called me gay, and made me believe that I wasn't nothing. The moment they sense that I feel good about myself, they extremely mad and start cursing me out. I respect their judgments so much that I believe everything they say about me. Anything they ask of me I do it, with no problem because I am afraid of hurting them for some reason. They embarrass me in front of everyone and talks to me so badly in front of everyone and I never feel I can defend myself. They make me seem like a bad person and make me feel like I deserve to feel like this. I consider myself a people pleaser, kind, and shy... I'm not saying that I am perfect because I've done things that I am not proud of, but never have I hurt anyone in my life.

My whole family has had this cycle of control and manipulation, and it made it so worse for me because I lived with these assholes, all my life basically. My brother told me that no man would ever love me, and that I will never have a life. I have no friends, no love life or nothing. My brother tells me all the time that he cannot imagine anyone taking me serious. I'm not fat or ugly... I have a nice body, people tell me that I am beautiful all the time. However, I am afraid to feel like I am .

My nephews and nieces are so disrespectful and they say all kinds of hurtful things like. "That's why you don't have a boyfriend"... "you are a bum and have nothing". and I can't discipline them or else my brother or sister will curse me out. My mom and stepdad steps in sometimes, but for the most part they are so involved with my siblings/cousins side.

I'm panning to move to Boston in about 2 or 3 months, after I save up all of my paychecks from my job (cleaning). I plan to cut off contact, in which I know they are going to blame me and make me feel like the one in the wrong, and try to pull me back in with guilt?

Sorry for the long question.

Sorry for the long question....
So when I was about 14 (I am now 20) I had a gay experience and after that I thought I was bisexual as I was really interested in girls as well as guys. But I have gone out with and slept with guys I have found that I don't enjoy it(I've cringed and all sorts during sex :/)although I feel attracted to them? I now feel like I am not bisexual but I'm a lesbian? Ah confused.com?????? I am not sure as to what I should do? Thank you in advance for answering.

So were both 14 and i'm bi and he says he's straight

So were both 14 and i'm bi and he says he's straight. We get along really well and sometimes in class he stares and me and when i look at him he smiles. He came up to me at lunch and playing with my hand and looked into my eyes and said he loved me. he's had girlfriends in the past so i'm not sure if he's joking or not.

I stayed at his house the other night and we were watching a film and we were sharing a bed and we were holding hands and we started to hug each other and stared right into my eyes. he slowly got closer like he was going to kiss me.
I got nervous and backed out but i regret it cause i wanted to. i fell asleep and i woke up and his hand was on my ***** area.

Lastly, do you think this describes a fundie atheist or

Lastly, do you think this describes a fundie atheist or a militiant atheist or an anti-theist?:

An atheist thumper who forces everyone around him/her to believe that God/Jesus/Satan/Heaven/Hell does not exist like he/she does, and that anyone who doesn't agree with his/her strict world view is comparable to a mentally challenged or psycholigically unbalanced person.

eg.
Fundie Atheist: Where are you going?

Christian: I'm going to church.

Fundie Atheist: Oh, going to listen to people preach how gays are evil, and that science is witchcraft?

Christian: No, I'm going to listen to people preach on how to be a kinder, more compassionate person, sing some lovely hymns, clap along, and then help with the charity drive for homeless people in third world countries.

Fundie Atheist: Open your eyes! God ain't real! It's all a crock of crap! Fairytales! It's a cult! Church teaches people nothing except how to hate and hurt others different from them!

Christian: Actually some of our congregation members are gay, and our charity drives are for helping people in need.

Fundie Atheist: You're still hurting people!

Christian: *rolls eyes* Look, believe or disbelieve whatever you want ok? But don't force your own world view down my throat ok? If you want to come and see for yourself, you are most welcome. Otherwise don't get on my case, please? Good day.

Fundie Atheist: Cult follower!

Christian: Get a life and a therapist

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I am an outgoing boy who may be

I am an outgoing boy who may be overwhelmingly active and sort of crazy and insane sometimes.

Last summer, a friend of mine who had been studying abroad came back and threw a friends reunion party. I was invited. So excited to meet her that my craziness was acting up, I tightly hugged a friend who I thought was intimate immediately I arrived the party. He was annoyed and tried to get off but I didn’t let him go. Indeed, my hug might be somewhat annoying because of my gayness and especially when the hug was somewhat girly. However, his coldness got on my nerves. I am a person who can’t take rejection. So, I didn’t stop being crazy, I started hugging another guy instead. As a result, some of them in the party(who I thought were even good friends) bitched about me. This really got my dander up so I was being really insane at that party and I deleted everyone who bitched from my QQ friends lists.(QQ is a messaging software, popular in China.)

I have never talked to those so-called friends after that. I told myself I shouldn’t have held grudges but I couldn’t. So, every party where they are invited I woudn’t go to. Their voices would gross me out if I met them again. Or maybe I was just afraid...

Is that hug really that annoying? I don’t know how straight guys slice it but from my perspective, my hug just shows my affection to them. My behavior might be somewhat girly but is it really obnoxious? Or, were they just discriminating against gays like me?

I don’t think I was born gay. I had Gynecomastia when I was in puberty and that was what I thought made me gay. Even though I had grown out of my boobs but my gayness had become part of who I am. I was somewhat sissy I admit so that I might have been ‘she-male’ in their eyes?

I don’t have genuine friends. There used to be some friends willing to hang out with me, but none of them is my friend any longer. One of them who I thought was my soul mate dumped me because she could’t stand I eating Baozi(A traditional Chinese food, you can google it if you want to know what it is). Every time I eat Baozi, she looks me with a eye that can kill me. “Don’t you know that Baozi stinks?! Do you want to gross me out?!” She even tells everybody in my class how Baozi smells. Okay I admit, it was my fault that I ate Baozi in classroom, but how could she being so mean to tell the head teacher on me?(In China, every class has a teacher in total charge and able to implement the punishment) I wanted to beg her of friendship but I finally gave up. I was nobody to her even if she was everybody to me.

Today I threw a graduation party (it’s a traditional Chinese custom that everyone who graduated from high school and get admitted to a university should throw a party to celebrate). I asked everybody I know to come, but you know what? The number who came is merely three. When my dad and mom was asking me why my friends hadn’t come, I was speechless. I don’t want anyone to know that I am not popular. What could I have said about this? After that, one of my friends who came to my party sent me a QQ message:”I think you should probably take it into consideration - why there should be so few friends came to your party. Don’t take this the wrong way, but I just think you should probably reflect on it...” Suddenly, a feeling of pain bursted in my head. I could barely breathe with this traumatic pain exploding in my body. I don’t want to think it that way, but am I just a freak that everybody hates?

I am a boy, i have this friend, that is also a boy

FYI I am a boy, i have this friend, that is also a boy, he is very beautiful , girly beautiful. i dont know but the first time i saw him i fell in love for real i am not gay but he really looks like a beautiful girl. i always wanted his attention so i go crazy everytime because i like it, i would do something to him like maybe tease him or joke about him then he would chase me or twist my skin [fun way not aggresive way] and i like it so i kept asking for his attention. since i met him, at night i will think of him, when i am out i will think about him, when i wake up i will think about him. then one day he was down walking alone on the grass , so i followed him and he told me nobody trusted or belive in him, because he looks like a girl and he told me about his sad past. i was there for him] . then he said i am normal after all but i like being crazy. since that i like him even more and think of him even more. he became more nice to me. that was last year. this year he and his best friend broke up and i was also there for him. i thought of him the whole summer and cant wait to go back to school so i could see him again, i always saved a seat for him on the school bus.my seat at class is behind him. we sat together for 1 year on the bus, some peoples call us gay but we dont care. we became very close for straight 1 year, we hangout together at recess. he would mini-abuse me when i tease him and my body have scars but i just cant seem to be angry .i told him my secrets. but one day i saw him talking with someone, he told him my secret just to impress his friend and keep the convo going. i forget and forgived him. the next time i saw him talking behind my back again, i forgived him again and told him to stop. and stll continue our friendship; and one more he was talking behind me back, my secrets]. i cried silently and felt very betrayed. he saw me and felt guilty i was seating behind him] but at the end i forgived him again. we continued our close friendship like before. then i realise something. he has a negative thinking of me like i would do bad things and i have a bad personality. and say i am ugly. i guess its true because i kinda am. although i was insulted i still dont care what he thinks of me. we would sometimes come early together to the school library. One time, his ex best friend was acting sad and ran out, he was like" lets find him". then another time, i was hiding under the table to see if he cares about me , so his ex best friend said julian ran out because he is sad, my friend just kept quiet like he doesnt care. i was hurt, but i make a fake smile and a fake laugh . and we continued, until today ,he was ignoring me. i was seating behind him and calling him and he keep ignoring me. i wanted to joke with him but he dint even want to look at me. but i dint gave up i still follow him around although i know i dont exist to him. until the bus, he dint even want to seat with me, he sat with another girl. we dint sat together for 3 days after 1 year. although i try to forget him i just cant. i sat behind him i dont talk much and not very social so makes it look like i need him . i cant forget him because he was my only friend that i can talk to at middle school.

A person can realize they're gay or bi

A person can realize they're gay or bi - or whatever - at any point. I figured it out in my mid-20's (probably because I was a teen in the 70's, and nobody in my hyper-religious family ever talked about being gay.) Most people even today are raised with the expectation that they are heterosexual, and not everyone realizes, right away, that they aren't.

I have a friend who didn't figure it out until she was 60.

Your friend is very young and does not know as much about life as she wants to think she does.
A lot of people realize they are 'different' from an early age, but don't have a name for it. That was the case with me. I always had an affinity for males. That turned into sexual attraction when I hit puberty and the hormones started raging. And a lot of people try and suppress it or deny it until it becomes a psychological imperative to be who you really are. For most, that happens in their teens or earlier, but for some it doesn't happen until much later.

Human Sexuality; that would be Homosexuality

Human Sexuality; that would be Homosexuality (Attraction to the same-sex), Heterosexuality (Attraction to the Opposite-Sex) and Bisexuality (Attraction to Both Genders) has been proven to be inborn. This was done in a case study of Identical Twins, when both twins where born and one happened to be gay the other twin had a seventy percent chance of also being gay. Proving that Human Sexuality deals with Hormones in the womb, pre-birth. Usually Attraction becomes more apparent well going through puberty because hormones are raging through the body, there is a phase called Bi-Curious which is caused by this hormonal imbalance during Teenage years which can end up being Fully Homosexual, Fully Bisexual or Fully Heterosexual.

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My friend and I are having a debate about this

My friend and I are having a debate about this. She says that a person would know for their entire life, but I think a person can realize it later on. So, we turn to you, people of Yahoo Answers. Who is right?
being gay is something u have to figure out for yourself some people are born knowing it but then some people change over time and then become gay i think it just has to do with them