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Sexual orientation: The term sexual

Sexual orientation: The term sexual

Sexual orientation: The term sexual orientation is generally used to describe how a person — if they do — finds themselves sexually, affectionally, and/or romantically attracted to other people in regards to the gender of those people; which gender or genders of person a given person can be in love with and wants to have any kind of sex with. There may be varying degrees of those things or experiences of those things being more separate than unified: for instance, a person may be very sexually attracted to men, but more emotionally attracted to women or someone may find that romantic attraction for them, to anyone, usually plays a bigger part than sexual attraction. 

Heterosexual (or straight): Someone who is solely or primarily (mostly) attracted to people of a different sex or gender than them, such as men who are attracted to women. 

Queer: Generally, queer is an umbrella term that describes a person who is not heterosexual. Someone may use the term queer as the way they identify, period, or may use terms like those below and also identify as queer. 

Homosexual (or gay, lesbian, same-gender loving, MSM or WSW): Someone who is solely or primarily (mostly) attracted to people of the same or similar sex or gender as them, such as men who are attracted to men. 

Bisexual: Someone who finds they can feel attraction to people of more than one gender, be that to both men and women, to people of all gender identities, or who doesn’t experience gender as a major factor in their attractions, period. 
Pansexual or Omnisexual: Someone who can feel attraction to people of all gender identities, or who doesn’t experience gender as a major factor in their attractions, period. 

Asexual (or nonsexual): Someone who has not experienced or does not experience sexual attraction to others or does not have a desire to be sexual with partners. In other words, someone who is not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender. 

Apasexual: Someone who feels a lack of significant interest in sex, or feels apathetic about sex in general. 

Androsexual, gynesexual, ambisexual or skoliosexual: These terms are a different framework for orientation than the framework of heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality, one that can be more inclusive and expansive than hetero/homo/bi and doesn’t require the gender of the person who is feeling the attraction to be defined in a given way, or at all. Androsexuality refers to someone who is attracted to masculinity, gynesexuality to femininity; am ambisexual is someone who can be attracted to both or either, or experiences gender as a non-issue, and a skolisexual, someone who is attracted to non-cisgender or non-binary people in general. Asexuality is also included in this framework. This framework doesn’t make rigid asssumptions about the other person’s gender, either: a person can be attracted to masculinity in women or femininity in men, for example. 

Pomosexual: Someone who rejects or does not identify as or with any categorization of sexual orientation as a form of identity. Pomosexual is basically a term for someone who is of the “labels are for soup cans” camp regarding orientation. 

Questioning (or -curious or -flexible, like bicurious or heteroflexible): Someone who isn’t sure right now, or has never been, of what their sexual orientation is; who is in the process of figuring that out. Terms like bicurious or whatever-flexible usually are used by someone who feels an interest or curiosity about a given gender of people sexually, but is still in the process of questioning. A term like that is sometimes also used to describe an interest in people of a given gender that’s there, but not felt as so central to be part of someone’s overall orientation.


I've been trying to find answers

I've been trying to find answers

I've been trying to find answers about this for a while but I've found nothing, so I guess I'm asking. I am a teen girl. In the past, I went through a two-year tomboy phase, but I'm over it completely. I have had a couple dreams about my girl best friend, and they we very sexual. I don't want to think of my friend like that, and I want to like guys. Truth is, I've never really been attracted to anyone- guys, girls, nobody. Nothing "turns me on" and when I see a guy I mostly think, "I guess he's cute," when I don't really know. He just fits the image everyone would label as attractive. I haven't experienced any sexual or many romantic advances, but I plan to. I guess "liked" my dreams, but I don't know if I want it to be a guy, or if I want it to be my girl bestfriend. I just think that I'm involuntarily developing unwanted feelings towards my friend. I was freaking out that I might be a lesbian or bisexual (Its okay for others to be one, I just dont want to be) so I vented to my friend who has gay parents because I thought maybe she could help me. It got a lot of weight off my chest, but it didn't help much with me understanding my feelings. If there are any questions about this, I'll add something, but that's all I can really think to write. Thanks in advance!
Me and my bestfriend have sleepovers often, like every weekend (Wow, right?) But when I sleep over, sometimes we'll just pass out on her sofa watching movies and stuff, but I get... "urges' to do things that I don't want to do. I can't talk to guys without looking stupid, and I don't really know what love is supposed to be, feels, looks, ect., like. I don't care about what society thinks, but Its what I think. I try to steer away from thoughts like that, and most of the time I do it successfully, but is it right to? I just want to be me, but straight... It's all jumbled and confusing, I know.

My boyfriend has a shot at full custody of his 5 yr

My boyfriend has a shot at full custody of his 5 yr

My boyfriend has a shot at full custody of his 5 yr old daughter. He and his ex. Have been apart since she was 1 yr old. Since that time he has payed c.s. and had his daughter about at least 50% of the time. His ex. Has her maybe 25% and the other 25% she sends her daughter to stay with her grandma in Florida. (We live in Ohio) My boyfriend and I now have a 6month old girl. And since I became pregnant his ex has became verbally abusive toward mg boyfriend refused to let him have her at times and sends his daughter to Florida so she can "live her life." She doesn't want her daughter but doesn't want him to have her and wants the c.s. but doesn't want to take care of her. So my boyfriend has documented as much as he van and is saving for a lawyer. He has a real shot at custody i think. Will it look good on his part if we are married? We want to get married anyhow but were waiting until the time was right. Also will it be good for me and our baby to go to court toshow our support?
The idea of heaven is soo gay

The idea of heaven is soo gay

The idea of heaven is soo gay. I mean you have people singing and dancing and in white. Even the angels and god wear clothes resembling togas and tutus. They are well manicured and generally look metrosexual/drag. If any of the mythical creatures that are so not gay then its got to be Devil and his minions. So is it a part of Gods plan to make Hell gay by sending gays to hell?

I just turned 19 years old

I just turned 19 years old

I just turned 19 years old and my best friend is still 18 for several more months.

We recently became even more closer after we both graduated high school (me a year ahead of him) and I've recently came to the conclusion that I'm gay. I'm in love with him so much...

We do so many things together including work at the same place as well, but I feel there's simply too many signs telling me he's gay. I just have a strong feeling that I'm almost certain about.

Here are only some of the pointers I need some help with making a conclusion
Ok so I guess my interest in this guy started last year

Ok so I guess my interest in this guy started last year

Ok so I guess my interest in this guy started last year, when he told people he was gay and then grabbed my leg. At the time I didn't have any interest in him. But as we came back from the summer, he had a new look (So did I) and I felt a bit more attracted to him. So a few weeks pass and I notice my feeling growing a bit stronger and as I forced myself to talk to him more I noticed that he was a bit more "Grabby" with guys. One day I found out that he had a girlfriend and this just completely threw me off track. It's been about two months since school started and their still together. To find out if he was even interested in the same sex I got his number from a friend and asked him if he was bi. He said that he never really thought about but that he wasn't against going out with a guy if one made him happy. I really like this guy but I don't know what I should do since he has a girlfriend... Please any advise would be extremely appreciated!!

i'm 15 and a sophomore and i'm also gay

i'm 15 and a sophomore and i'm also gay

i'm 15 and a sophomore and i'm also gay. I've never had a boyfriend but it's the only thing I want more than anything. sounds cliché but i'm serious. i'm more than ready to fall in love but i'm an introvert. a loner. I can't depend on anyone really. I have a few friends but in all honesty they have they're own clique so i'm just friends with them for the rest of the semester. next year i'm getting homeschooled unless I change my mind. I used to be a people person who everyone loved but I guess you could say I fell from grace. I grew out of that around the time I started middle school. so now my mother doesn't care about me anymore and sends all of her love toward my cousins who she wishes were hers. it doesn't bother me really. but I've been felling a lot more lonely lately. usually I could brush it off but it's been on my mind forever now. I don't exactly need friends really just someone to hold me and love me for who I am. my family thinks i'm going to grow up sad and alone forever and i'm starting to believe them. i'm not mean but sometimes I get irritable. when I came home from school today I felt like crying but still haven't cried yet. I keep thinking because i'm not as out going and friendly as I used to be as a child that being alone forever is my never ending punishment because I wanted to be alone so much. really don't want to be alone forever but if it's what I deserve then I guess there's no questions.